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Noticing changes in your mum or dad can be worrying. With guidance from Clinical Psychologist Melissa Levi and Mable, you’ll learn how to spot early warning signs, start caring conversations, and find out some practical tips to support their independence.
The holidays are often the first time we notice those small changes that things aren’t quite as they used to be.
But it’s hard to know what’s normal and what’s not. It’s no wonder only one in three of us feels confident in knowing how to spot the signs that an older relative might need support.
Mum repeats questions or loses track of conversations.
Dad seems withdrawn, irritable, or anxious.
Bills pile up, meals are missed, or things go missing.
Noticing these moments can have you wondering if this is just part of ageing, or something more?
Our free discussion guide will help you have a caring conversation by fostering a discussion built on love and respect.
Find a quiet, non-rushed time when you are both relaxed and calm. Avoid initiating this conversation during a stressful holiday gathering.
Start by listening to their concerns first. Frame the conversation around their goals for independence and comfort, not your worries.
Move from observation ('I noticed...') to offering support. Discuss small, simple changes that can help them stay safe and independent.
The holidays are a precious time for connection. But they can also be a time when you notice subtle changes in your older relatives that might suggest they need a little extra support to maintain their independence.
of adults over 35 believe it’s important to help older relatives maintain independence at home.
of us are deeply concerned about the wellbeing of our older relatives.
wish they could connect with them more often.
want to visit older relatives more frequently.
To better understand your loved one’s aged care needs and how to initiate a conversation about introducing support to help them live independently, read our report, which contains the latest statistics and information. |
The next hurdle may be getting a professional opinion or introducing support successfully.
Download our guides on these important topics to help you navigate through this process. It will help you raise your concerns kindly, without starting an argument or ruining Christmas.
What to say, what to ask, and how to get the most from your doctor.
Simple ways to talk about help at home so your parent feels supported, not taken over.
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While navigating the option of finding a new support person, I found the experience of listing my requirements through Mable, the quality of possible supports who replied, and the open communication from Mable admin, resulted in a smooth, stress-free experience.
The carers my mother and I have booked through Mable are reliable and helpful, giving mum back some freedom from housework and some personal care and grooming, making mum feel alive and vibrant again.
