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In this episode, we meet comedian Oliver Hunter and his independent support worker on Mable, Steph.
Meet Oliver and Steph
Oliver, a 29-year-old comedian with cerebral palsy, began using Mable in 2022 and has since built a support network of 11 workers. However, it's his regular Tuesday sessions with Steph that have made a profound impact on his life. As Oliver puts it, "I probably wasn't aware how much I was struggling until I started getting support to help cook meals, hang out washing, or even just vacuum the house."
Steph's thoughtful approach to support work has been instrumental in helping Oliver achieve his goals. She explains that it's important to "be intuitive of what they need, what their limitations are and where they would like to grow. Sometimes that's being social, sometimes that's helping them around the house, sometimes that's just being a friend and a companion. And even just asking them, too, what their goals are."
Steph finds immense fulfilment in her role, emphasising the joy of being a source of support and positivity in her clients' lives. "Being a bit of sunshine in their day is fantastic," she says, reflecting on the rewarding aspects of her work.
An honest and personal connection
Oliver and Steph's relationship is built on honesty and trust—elements they agree are crucial in any support dynamic. "You've always been honest from the start. You were honest in the support you could provide me. But I also was honest in what I needed," Oliver tells Steph. "That honesty then led to trust." This strong foundation enables them to tackle challenges with confidence and mutual understanding.
Throughout their time together, Steph and Oliver have built a bond filled with humour and mutual respect. When asked who is funnier, Steph confidently claims, "That'd be me," while Oliver quips, "I'm funnier when the red light's on." Their light-hearted banter is an essential part of their professional relationship, reinforcing the importance of finding a support worker who aligns with your personality and values.
Independence is a unique journey
During their conversation, they reflect on the changing nature of independence and how it varies at different life stages. For Oliver, independence once meant moving out and attending university, but now it's about contributing as a husband and parent. 'As a parent and husband, how can I contribute to the household?' he says. Steph agrees, noting that as responsibilities shift over time, independence remains an ever-evolving journey.
As a stand-up comedian, Oliver faces unique challenges in the world of comedy, from inaccessible venues to seating limitations. "I have to sit in front of the stage, usually in the front row with the audience," Oliver shares. "But I've made that work for myself." Despite these obstacles, Oliver's determination shines through, inspiring others in the industry. He recalls a memorable moment when fellow comedian Guy decided to sit on the floor during a show in solidarity with him, highlighting the power—and impact— of inclusivity and adaptation.
Steph and Oliver's discussion highlights that independence is not about doing everything alone but rather about having the right support to live life on one's own terms. Oliver sums it up best: "Independence is different to everyone. For me, it's about knowing who you are and being comfortable with that."
Through Mable, Oliver has found not just practical support but also meaningful companionship. Steph's ability to balance practical assistance with emotional support has helped Oliver fully embrace his independence. For those new to seeking support, Oliver's advice is simple: "Be succinct in your job ad and don't be afraid to be direct about what you need."
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